10 best ways on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend in 2018

10 best ways on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend in 2018

10 best ways on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend in 2018

You have met a special girl on the dating site and have been seeing her for quite some time now. Your life at the moment consists of romantic dates, late nights and flirty texts. You constantly find yourself thinking of her and the memories you have shared together. Now is the perfect time to make your relationship official and finally ask this lovely lady to be your girlfriend. Of course, it is never easy and can definitely be stressful even for the bravest man out there. To make this process less difficult and more exciting, an experienced online dating user has shared his tips on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

“I have had a few girlfriends in my life and currently in a long-term relationship. It was always difficult for me to find the courage and make things official but it has to be done at some point. Trust me, it is so worth it. Dating a girl that I can call “mine” is a wonderful feeling. Knowing that someone cares about you, how your day is going, what your dreams are is amazing. Every time I wanted to ask a girl to be my girlfriend, I would get very stressed out and start to overthink the situation. But it does get easier with practice. During my dating years, I have made some mistakes while asking girls out and was even rejected once. However, I also learned a lot and have come up with some cute ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend and wanted to share them with you”.

Important online dating rules

 Do not rush it

As exciting as it sounds to be in an official relationship, it is important to never rush anything.You might have been on a date or two and even shared a kiss, but how well do you know her and how well does she know you? Asking her to be your girlfriend soon after meeting her for the first time might scare her away. She might not be looking for a relationship or can turn out to be a completely different person after all. It is perfectly fine to take some time and really get to know each other before asking her to be your girlfriend”.

 Be clear about your intentions

Take her on a romantic walk

You think she is “The One” and wants to make things official between you guys. Then tell her exactly what is on your mind. Do not twist your words or lie. She needs to know how you feel about her and what your intentions are. Be romantic and most importantly, speak the truth”.

Romantic ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend

So you have decided to ask her to be your girlfriend. Now, all you have to do is be as sweet as possible. You would want to remember this moment later :). “

 Take her on a romantic walk

“To make this moment special, ask her to go for a walk with you to a local park, beach, forest, anywhere you would like. What can be more romantic than telling her how you feel about her while watching the sunset or getting caught in the rain ;). If you want to be more creative, you can write your message out for her with a stick on the sand, or with rocks, depending on the location of your date.”

 Write her a song Write her a song

Express your feelings towards her in lyrics and sing it to her. I guarantee it will touch her heart. If you play an instrument, that would be even better! If you do not, perhaps you know someone that does and you can perform together. I think this is one of the most romantic ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. I have written a song for my current girlfriend and played it on my guitar. She says it was one of the best moments in her life!

Order her a pizzaOrder her a pizza

Who doesn’t like pizza? 😉 If you know her favorite pizza preference, and I hope you do by now, order it for her! You can ask the pizza place to write a message inside the box, or you can also write what you want to say yourself to make it more personal. Imagine the happiness on her face when she sees pizza at her doorstep. Just remember to pay for it beforehand so she doesn’t have to, haha”.

 Cook her a dinnerCook her a dinner

“This is a classic way to do it and it works every time. Cook her favorite meal, light up some candles, open a bottle of Rose, put some music on and invite her over. When the moment is right, ask her to be your girlfriend.”

Surprise her

“To my mind, this is one of the most creative ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.You can write your question on a piece of paper, poster, sign, or any other material and surprise her out of nowhere. You can also bake her a treat or cake to make it more romantic. You can surprise her on her way to work, gym, shopping or any other activity.  All you need is the location, time, and a smile. How can she say “no” to such a cute surprise:)”

Online dating relationship advice

I would also like to share my knowledge on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend over text. It might be a little less romantic, but it certainly does give you the opportunity to say everything you want to her in just one simple text.”

Initiate the conversation

Surprise her

Send her a good morning text, tell her that she is on your mind or simply send a funny message to make her smile. The key is to make sure she is in a good mood, has free time and is willing to chat at the moment. If she is not answering, busy, or seems to be having some troubles, it is better to ask another time. There will be plenty of other opportunities. As I have mentioned before there is no need to rush anything :)”

Keep the conversation going

“Once you have made sure she is in a good mood and is willing to text for a bit, keep the conversation going. Remind her of the memories you have created together, how much fun you have with her and how happy she makes you feel. It will make her feel appreciated and will definitely put a smile on her face.”

Say it

“Now is the perfect time to ask her to be your girlfriend! Use this opportunity wisely and tell her how you feel about her and that you would like to be in an official relationship. Keep the text sweet and simple”.


“This is my advice on how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. I wish you best of luck on your online dating journey. I would be more than happy to answer any of the additional questions that you might have. More infor you can find here

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